Friday, October 02, 2015

I Will Speak His Name

It happened again. And there has been much acknowledgment that it keeps happening - we are killing each other at an unprecedented rate in this country and it is overwhelmingly sad and frustrating and I wish that we could find a different way to talk about it because, clearly, the way we have been approaching it isn't working.

I popped in to my book club for an hour last night and, even though the topic was the book of historical fiction that we had all read, it quickly bled into discussing the shooting at Umpqua Community College. Someone noted that one positive aspect of all of these things - wars and terrorist attacks and mass shootings - is that it rallies communities, that we all notice each others' humanity and come together to support each other.  But I couldn't quite agree.  The other common aspect of all of those things that ostensibly bring communities together is that they are united against a common enemy. In war it is the other country, after 9/11 it was "terrorists," after yesterday, it is either mentally ill people or mentally ill people with guns or, in some people's minds, simply people with guns.  So while this may feel like solidarity, it is false, because while we may truly be recognizing the humanity of those who are suffering the same way we are, we are setting up a false dichotomy and altogether failing to recognize the humanity of the "other," whomever we have decided they are.

The fact is, we are all in this together. How much must a person be suffering to pick up a weapon and shoot scores of people? How much pain must someone be in to want to inflict that much pain on others?

I have seen many posts on social media today from people and organizations vowing not to mention the name of the person responsible for yesterday's shooting, and I can't help but feel that that is part of the problem. His act was horrific and deplorable, to be certain, but we cannot deny his humanity. Pretending that there is an "Us" and a "Them" is simply perpetuating the problem. The fact is, Chris Mercer was one of us, but he didn't know it and I doubt he felt that way. So often, we hear the stories of shooters in these incidents described as "loners," "quirky," "angry," and "isolated." In other words, not part of a community.

I absolutely believe that stricter gun laws are a vital necessity in this country. I have said that time and time again. But I also think that until we recognize the equal human rights of every person, to dignity and health care (including mental health care) and education, we are destined to see this repeat again and again. Uniting in the wake of tragedies like this, or against a common enemy is not a positive reaction, it is a reaction rooted in fear and scarcity. Coming together to fight AGAINST something drives us into a corner and forces us to erect walls. It is only a matter of time before those boundaries are breached, and being united in fear is a tenuous thing. It is high time we started uniting in purpose, finding a reason to include each and every person in our community and work toward a positive future for us ALL. Refusing to speak the name of someone who is hurting so intensely that they could plan and execute a horrific act like a mass shooting is just another way of burying our heads in the sand. We need to acknowledge the humanity of us all, recognize that we are all entitled to be part of the community of people who deserve happiness and liberty and that so long as we ignore and marginalize individuals out of fear, we are setting ourselves up for more acts of pain like this one.

1 comment:

Dee said...

Dear Kario, I've been away nearly a year from your thought-provoking postings. They always make me stop and examine my thoughts and beliefs. The US/Them dichotomy has I believe been with us throughout much of the time humanoids have walked the earth. Dividing society into those who think my way and those who think any other way makes thinking a lot easy. Grappling with what all humans hold in common and respecting our differences takes a largeness of heart and mind that is seldom if ever always present in any one person. We when discover ourselves buying into them/us we must immediately, I think, examine our fears. Peace.

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