Pope Allows Priests to Forgive Abortion if Women are 'Contrite'
Being a long-lapsed Catholic, I am not really worried about this for myself. And I admit to having watched this Pope with a significant degree of awe because I feel like he really is being true to his Jesuit roots with regard to many of the decisions he makes and the things he says. I admire his commitment to being a voice for those in poverty and his courage when speaking about climate change. But this, well, perhaps there is something lost in translation, but this makes my blood begin to boil.
"I am well aware of the pressure that has led [women] to this decision. I know that it is an existential and moral ordeal."I call bullshit.
With all due respect, you don't know. You have no idea what a woman who is trying to make a decision like this goes through. And you have no right to assume that you know, especially as the head of the organization that puts many of the roadblocks in her way in the first place (what's your church's official position on birth control, again?)
I think that the Pope is trying to do the right thing here, and I can appreciate the sentiment. But the notion that a woman, any woman, needs a man to absolve her for making a private medical decision makes me sick to my stomach. Some folks have commented that priests have no business 'forgiving' anyone, that that is God's job. Others have praised the Pope for his liberal stance on this issue. In the context of the Catholic Church, a horrifyingly patriarchal system in and of itself, I suppose this seemed like a noble thing to offer. Indeed, devout Catholics can be forgiven for a whole host of sins if they just ask with contrition, regardless of whether they are male or female, but to ask a woman to be contrite for a choice she made that is entirely private is utterly ridiculous. What's next, you can have birth control if every time you go to pick up your prescription you go straight to confessional afterward and ask for forgiveness?
Asking a woman to be 'contrite' is whitewashing the entire set of cultural pressures that Catholic women live under daily. The Pope's slight nod to the church's anti-birth control stance (if that is what it was) doesn't erase the reality for many women around the globe that basically tells them their highest purpose is to get married and procreate and be subservient to their husbands. It ignores the reality that women are the main caregivers of these children and yet are powerless to determine how many of them they are willing to risk their health and life having and give up their careers to raise. It ignores the reality that the only alternative to birth control or abortion is to refuse their husbands, often at their own peril. It ignores the reality that women often have very little control over whether or not they will engage in sex, especially in areas of the world where sexual assault is used as a weapon of war, but that these women are the ones left behind to deal with the consequences of that violation. Are these women to feel 'contrite?' Are they to come to the church and beg a powerful male figure for forgiveness because they made a decision that that powerful man who has taken a vow of celibacy could not possibly understand or have the right to judge?
I call bullshit.
Nice try, but it's time to move along. Perpetuating the idea that a woman's sexuality either belongs to the church or to her husband is so last-Pope. Don't even get me started on the fact that abortion isn't mentioned in the Bible even once.... The bible is a religious text, not a medical one. It has no authority to tell a woman how to make a medical choice, nor to forgive her for making it.